Vol. I · May 2026
put a ring on it
An editorial on the small, circular things we keep
The Lead Essay

Can I get an engagement ring that's anti-allergy for sensitive skin?

Nicole came in last February with a red, itchy line under her engagement ring. She'd bought the ring from a mall chain: 14k white gold, rhodium plated, size...

By Renee AlexanderSeptember 16, 2026
Custom engagement ring
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No. 02

What is the best engagement ring for a minimalist style?

The best engagement ring for a minimalist style is a solitaire, and I'll die on that hill. A single stone in a clean, all-metal mount. No halo, no pavé, no...

No. 03

What is the etiquette for a second marriage engagement ring?

Twice a month, someone sits across from me and apologizes for what they actually want. The second marriage engagement ring brings out a strange amount of...

No. 04

Can a man wear an engagement ring too?

The one-word answer to whether a man can wear an engagement ring too is yes. And I'd go further: the only thing strange about a man wearing an engagement...

No. 05

How do I know if an engagement ring is too flashy for everyday wear?

Sarah's ring sat 7.8mm off her finger. She brought it in last March, eight months after the proposal, and set it on my bench pad without saying a word. She...

No. 06

Should I ask his or her parents for permission before buying an engagement ring?

No, not unless your partner has specifically asked you to. I've been at the bench for twenty-two years, and the permission question before buying an...

No. 07

How do I handle it if she doesn't like the ring I chose?

Last February a guy named Alex sat across from me because his fiancée didn't like the ring he'd chosen. She'd said yes, then three days later told him she...

No. 08

What do I do with the engagement ring if the proposal is delayed?

A delayed proposal is not a jewelry emergency. It's a storage, insurance, and maintenance problem with a very specific end date. The ring will not go bad....

No. 09

How long does it take to have an engagement ring engraved?

I engraved a platinum band last Tuesday while the client waited. Whole thing took 22 minutes, including the time I spent re-aligning the lettering because...

No. 10

Is it cheaper to buy an engagement ring online or at a jewelry store?

Online is usually cheaper. The short answer to "is it cheaper to buy an engagement ring online or at a jewelry store" is yes, usually, by 20 to 30 percent...

No. 11

What should I look for in an engagement ring warranty?

Most engagement ring warranties are written to protect the store, not your ring. A good one exists, but you have to read the fine print like a contract,...

From the Editor

We started this journal because the most interesting thing about a ring isn’t the ring. It’s the choice to make one in the first place.

Ines Marchetti, Founding Editor

A letter, every other Sunday.

One essay, one object, one quiet recommendation — delivered slowly, the way these things ought to be.