Vol. I · May 2026
put a ring on it
An editorial on the small, circular things we keep
Archive · Page 15
No. 142

How do I choose a setting that protects a soft gemstone like opal?

Opal is about a 5.5 to 6 on the Mohs scale. That's softer than quartz, softer than most garnets, and significantly softer than the sapphire or diamond...

No. 143

Can I get a custom ring with a hidden inscription or message?

Yes, absolutely. I'd say about a third of the custom rings I make have some kind of hidden inscription. It's one of those details that makes a piece feel...

No. 144

Can I get a custom ring made from recycled or eco-friendly materials?

Yes, absolutely. And I do it more often than you'd think - probably for about a third of the customs I take on last year. The short answer is that the metal...

No. 145

How do I match a custom wedding band to an existing engagement ring?

The short answer: bring the engagement ring with you. Not a photo of it on your hand, not a screenshot from the jeweler's website - the actual ring. I've...

No. 146

Can I design a custom ring with multiple gemstones in a cluster?

Yes. And you should probably have a clear idea of why before you start, because a multi-stone cluster brings a specific set of trade-offs that a...

No. 147

What is the process of designing a custom ring using online tools?

I’m going to be honest with you: “designing a custom ring using online tools” means very different things depending on which website you land on. Some of...

No. 148

How do I select the right ring style for my hand shape?

I get this question a lot, and the honest answer is that hand shape matters, but it's not the only thing that matters. A ring that fits visually and...

No. 149

Are there any hidden costs when ordering a custom ring?

Yes, and if your jeweler hasn't walked you through them by the second consultation, that's a red flag. I've had clients show up with a sketch and a budget,...

No. 150

What is the best way to clean a custom ring with intricate settings?

The short answer: professional ultrasonic with steam, once every six months at your jeweler's, and a soft brush at home. The long answer depends on what...

No. 151

What are the advantages of choosing a custom ring over a designer brand?

About 70% of the engagement rings I make start with a stone the client already owns-an heirloom, a flea market find, or a lab-grown diamond they bought...

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