Vol. I · May 2026
put a ring on it
An editorial on the small, circular things we keep
Archive · Page 28
No. 272

How do I handle it if my partner wants a different metal than I chose?

Last October, a couple named Daniel and Priya sat in my studio for their first consultation. He wanted a platinum solitaire. She wanted 18k yellow gold. Not...

No. 273

Is it safe to wear an engagement ring during an MRI scan?

A client named Rachel walked into my studio three weeks after an MRI on her wrist, convinced the machine had somehow magnetized her platinum engagement ring...

No. 274

Should I avoid certain diamond shapes if she works with her hands?

Yes. Two shapes, and I’ll name them in a minute. But the real answer isn’t just about shape - it’s about the life the ring is going to live, and whether...

No. 275

Can I estimate her ring size from a photo of her hand?

No. Not with any kind of precision that matters for a ring you actually want her to wear. I’ve tried it, clients have tried it, and I’d say about one in...

No. 276

How do I safely remove a ring that's stuck on my finger?

Last Tuesday a woman named Elise walked into the studio with her left ring finger the color of an eggplant and her engagement ring buried halfway down the...

No. 277

What is a tulip setting and how does it look?

Last spring, Lucia brought in her grandmother’s round brilliant. A touch too deep for a standard peg head. The tulip setting solved it. The prongs rise from...

No. 278

What is a flush setting in rings?

3.2mm. That's the diameter of the diamond I set into a 5mm platinum comfort-fit band last Tuesday. The client, a mechanic named Ben, had been back twice...

No. 279

What should I do if the diamond falls out of the setting?

First, stop everything. Find the diamond. Use a flashlight, even in daylight - stones glint against the floorboard crack you’d swear wasn’t there. Check...

No. 280

How do I decide on the number of prongs for the diamond?

Daniel came in last Tuesday with a 1.04 carat round brilliant, G/VS2, GIA, triple excellent. He'd bought the stone online and wanted me to build the ring...

No. 281

What is a cathedral setting in rings?

A cathedral setting is the most architectural thing we do at the bench - and I mean that as a compliment. The shank sweeps up from the finger in two arms,...

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