Vol. I · May 2026
put a ring on it
An editorial on the small, circular things we keep
Archive · Page 32
No. 312

How do I compare diamond quality from different online jewelers?

Last month a client named Daniel forwarded me six listings for near-identical 1.5‑carat round diamonds. Every stone was graded F/VS2, every one claimed...

No. 313

How do I know if a diamond is real without a certificate?

I get this question about once a week, and it always starts the same way. Someone walks in holding a ring they found in a drawer or inherited from an aunt....

No. 314

Is it okay to buy a pre-owned engagement ring from an estate sale?

Last fall a woman named Elise walked into my studio with a ring she’d bought at an estate sale in Santa Fe. She’d paid about $1,200. The ring was a 1920s...

No. 315

How do I propose with a uniquely shaped ring box?

I've had two clients in the past year bring in ring boxes that were tiny dioramas. One was a miniature library. The other was a snow globe. Both were...

No. 316

How do I take a good photo of the engagement ring on her hand?

Most ring-on-hand photos I see are terrible. I don't mean that as a jab at anyone's photography skills. I mean the lighting is wrong, the hand is posed like...

No. 317

Is it safe to sleep with the engagement ring on?

No. I'll say it again: no, it isn't. Last October a client named Julia came in on a Wednesday morning, slightly pale, holding her left hand out with the...

No. 318

How should I store the engagement ring at home to avoid damage?

A ring box is not a safe. I've had clients bring in engagement rings that sat in a velvet-lined box inside a drawer for a year - no moisture, no impact -...

No. 319

How do I commission a jewelry designer for a custom ring?

Daniel walked into my studio last fall with a sketch on a napkin and a budget that didn’t quite match it. That’s not unusual. About 70% of the custom work I...

No. 320

Can I order engagement rings to try on at home before deciding?

The first time a client asked me about home try-on kits, I told her the truth: most of the rings are plated brass with CZ stones that look nothing like the...

No. 321

How do I pick a ring that's comfortable for typing all day?

The ring that feels fine at 7 p.m. in the jewelry store can become a dull throb by 10 a.m. the next day if you type for a living. I’ve seen it happen. About...

A letter, every other Sunday.

One essay, one object, one quiet recommendation — delivered slowly, the way these things ought to be.