Vol. I · May 2026
put a ring on it
An editorial on the small, circular things we keep
Archive · Page 9
No. 82

How do I photograph my engagement ring for social media?

Photographing an engagement ring for social media is mostly a problem of light and distance. The ring is small, the camera is close. Every mistake gets...

No. 83

How do I keep the ring safe during an outdoor proposal?

For an outdoor proposal, the ring stays in a zippered pocket until the exact moment you're on one knee. Not a jacket pocket with a button. Not a backpack....

No. 84

How many sizes can an engagement ring be resized?

Two sizes up and two sizes down. That's the clean, low-risk answer for a plain 18k or platinum engagement ring with a standard solitaire head and no stones...

No. 85

What is the average ring size for women?

6.5. That's the number most sources quote for women in the United States, and I've been muttering about it at the bench for years because it tells you...

No. 86

What is a temporary engagement ring setting?

Daniel walked in last March with a 1.68 carat oval diamond, GIA graded, loose in the breast pocket of a denim jacket. The date was set. The stone was real....

No. 87

What finger do you put an engagement ring on?

Left ring finger, if you're in the U.S., Canada, the U.K., or Australia. That's where most of my clients wear it, and it's the finger the ring I'm sizing is...

No. 88

Can men wear engagement rings?

Men can wear engagement rings. I've made 23 of them in the last four years, and every single one was the right call for the client. The only people who...

No. 89

What is a promise ring versus an engagement ring?

Last spring a client named Marco came in with a $900 budget and no stone. He wanted a promise ring for his girlfriend Priya. The first sketch he pointed to...

No. 90

Are moissanite engagement rings a good alternative to diamond?

Moissanite is a good alternative to diamond for a lot of engagement ring clients, but it is not a diamond, and pretending otherwise is where the...

No. 91

What does a blue sapphire engagement ring symbolize?

I've set 23 blue sapphire engagement rings in the last two years, and exactly one of those clients asked me about symbolism before she asked whether the...

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